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There's nothing like live music, busting a move on the dance floor, or headbanging to some metal. You get to see me in my element. And I get to see how you can handle a woman that makes friends left and right. Weed out the jealous types.
But really I'm not picky so anything is fine for a first date! Just maybe not a movie because communication on a first date (and forever after) is key.
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A local jazz club or community concert lets you enjoy the atmosphere together and chat between sets.
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My first date would be what we both feel would be fun for both. It would be a place that's comfortable for both and a thing where one feel secure and open to seeing the other for who they actually are. It would be filled with fun, laughter and taking others in for who they are.
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A quiet meetup for a drink and chat before a blasting metal show. On the floor preferably. No cover bands.
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Whatever the decision turns out to be, the great desire is to create memorable and beautiful outcomes.
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Picnic with good food and good conversation, or a festival with great music and adventures. As long as the company and food are good, I'm happy.
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Any type of outdoor music or art event
Arcades like Pinballz
Food truck parks
420 events
Outdoor movies
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Going out for a nice dinner date . Also having to walk in the park , holding hands together and having some private moment.
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I like to go have fun concerts, we can plan a date I like paintball, batting cages
We could go to the park , I want to try new things in life so I'm up for anything adventurous
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Live entertainment is always a good first option. Comedy, Music festivals, Or a sporting event are good examples in my opinion.
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I'm open to go and do anything fun, relaxing, or funny. I like going to places I've never been before, such as art and Black history museums.
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To be hidden in a library and give the challenge to the man to find me. Hahaha! I would like that.
But seriously, meeting around a glass of chocolate, walking to the parc, observing the stars at night. Many many ideas. :)
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A nice planned adventure based upon what you know I like so far is a win. I prefer lunch and something I've never experienced before....surprise me.
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A local bar scene type concert or karaoke or maybe catch a live Comedy show. But first lets go thrift shopping and maybe get some fun outfits. Go eat somewhere that is gluten/dairy free for me as well as whatever you want to eat. Really whatever sounds fun for both of us.
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An immersive exhibit, quirky museum, or live performance—something we can actually experience together instead of just interviewing each other over dinner. Wander, laugh, debate what we’re looking at, then grab a drink afterward and see if we want to keep the night going.
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First dates with me are usually shows at a bar or something. I know some good spots by the river in Sac too. If jumping off a bridge makes a good time I'd do that at Rainbow bridge. I will be smoking weed once I'm off probation so if my date blazes as well that's a huge turn on. woman smokeing cigarettes that's also very attractive. But that's just me if my date prefers I don't smoke that's not a problem. I also like to know women by just driving them around, eating and sight seeing w/e we decide on. I do a lot on the go. Night with a fire on the side of the river or my backyard where I can get to know you a little better.... I'll gladly play your favorite music, that always interests me, as I'm not picky, I think all music is good.
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Take me to a gig, grab a drink or some food beforehand, then wander somewhere afterwards and talk absolute nonsense for far too long. Bonus points if there’s live music, weird little bars, cards, or somewhere interesting to explore
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Cooking, outdoors, biking, adventure, van life, travel, resting, sunshine, toes out, meditation,love, family.
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I absolutely love concerts. Music is some of my favorite therapy (besides laughing) - down to go to a concert of pretty much any genre (yes that includes house music LOL)
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Coffee and conversation somewhere cozy, a live music spot, a jazz lounge, an art exhibit, or dinner somewhere with great atmosphere. I also love something a little unexpected—give me good music, good conversation, a little laughter, and enough time to see if there’s chemistry.
Bonus points if you introduce me to a place I’ve never been
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